life

look at life as a school
there are so much to learn
situation comes to teach
it comes in the form of people, nature.....
look at life as a school

Am I funny?

I cried....
many times without reasons
a few times with reasons
I smiled....
many times with reasons
a few times without reasons
am i funny?

speaking the truth

Speaking the truth is important in relationship which means it is important in our life. Speaking the truth is simple to some people but some may find it to be difficult. They have the fear that the truth may worsen their relationship. Some may even find that if speaking the truth can cause harm to ones pride, better not speak. In a short term, not speaking the truth may help but in future it will cause more harm than good. One day the truth will be out so why not today.
The truth should be revealed because that is the best to be done. Eventhough the truth can cause harm, one shall speak the truth. Find the right time and situation. Speak with manners, right tone, right speech, right attitude and speak sweetly. Do it as quickly as possible and do not wait too long. It may save a relationship.

Tips to be stress free

Stop 7 C's: -
Criticism
Correction
Comment
Comparison
Confrontation
Competition
Complain

Start 7 C's:-
Courage
Confidence
Careful
Cooperation
Contentment
Calmness
Courtesy

Stress in relationship

I would like to share something nice with all my loved ones. May this message will open up ones mind and heart to lead a stress free relationship.

Stress is something that happens to someone in which one is not able to cope. What is stressful to me, may not be stressful to others. In relationship, divorce can be a form of relief to some people and can be stressful to some others. All depend on ones perception, situation and views of something that he or she looks on.
The defination of life need to be understood. One needs to understand the parametre that one sets. Some may ask what are the parametres that we have to set for ourselves. It is very simple actually but not all able to practise it.

- think of others as you would want them to think of you.
- have the attitude that you want others to have in them.
- behave the same to you and to others.
- speak to yourself as you speak to others.

Relationship can be beautiful if one is able to follow the above. There are many people out there are suffering in relationship or have a stressful relationship. Why?

ATTACHMENT- which is out of too much of love. Too much of love can change to hatered because of suspicion and possesiveness. Where there is attachment, there is resistance and where there is resistance, there is fear.
EGO- which is the false identification about ownself. Not willing to let go or give in.
MISTRUST- lost of trust in each other due to gossips. Always believe and listen to the third party. Fail to realise that communication is the keyword for any relationship. Need to understand that communication is not only talking but also listening but not to the third party.

My dear ones, relationship can be stress free if everyone can avoid all those three above. Try to understand each others nature, differences and circumstances. Learn the art of forgiving and forget.
Forgive means to let go and forget means remember the good deeds only. Always look at the bright side of everyone and ignore the dark side. Be more broadminded, be honest and free from expectations. Always think of what you have learned from others and not what others have learned from you. Admit your mistakes and appreciate each other.
The most important things to remember in order to have a stress free relationship is be aware of the three faculties in oneself. What are they?
MIND
INTELECT
and
SUBCONCIOUS
One should have the true identification of oneself, 'that is you are the soul' and allow all the three faculties to have a harmonious relationship in oneself.